Kai’s Birth

 
 
   I just wanted to share my labour story to anyone who is interested in a home birth ?
On a Tuesday I felt a surge of nesting instinct, I gathered my list, wallet and keys and went shopping for towels, candles and went to get a co sleeper from baby bunting.
Whilst in baby bunting I desperately had to pee so I rushed to the loo and found a huge glob of mucus (tmi), it was summer so I was sweating life a pig running around baby bunting stressing because my mucus plug had gone and I had bad lower back pain but I made it home in peak hour but no contractions by this time it was late arvo on the 2nd May 17.
On Wednesday at 2am I woke with mild period cramps which where enough to keep me awake, I tried a few times to get some extra rest because I knew that this was it (hadn’t had any braxton hicks). It was very manageable and my waters still hadn’t broken so I just kind of pottered around the house while letting hubby sleep and ate some cookies and drank bulk tea!
By 5am I woke up my mum (who was going to help me out with my home birth) and she helped me set up the pool and the house move furniture ect. Contractions where 3mins apart lasting 1min and a half but I was in no rush to call the midwife. I laboured in the shower for around 2hours 6-8am, when my mum decided it was time to call for help, it was very casual and my contractions where
still manageable with just sipping on icey water and using heat bags on my front and back.
The midwife arrived at 9am and did a check of the heart beat all was well then checked my progress and surprisingly I was at 7cm dilated. We filled up the birthing pool and I popped on my music and lit the candles and just went with the contractions which felt like surges/waves, it was around 11am by this point. It wasn’t until I was 8/9cm I felt intense, unmanageable pain, and my waters still had not broken so with my permission the midwives popped my waters to relieve the pressure, and whilst doing so I’d gotten to 10cm dilated. I was ready to push (1.30pm)It took me 30mins of pushing for my baby to eventually arrive, and yes it did hurt but you’ve got to remember it’s one day out of your whole life, then it’s over and you’ve got a baby.
Weighing a whopping 9.23pound, 54cm long born at 1.59pm, 3/5/17!If your in the right head space and can go with your instinct and flow you will be fine ? home birth is the most amazing thing I have every done!
Oh and baby arrived at 39+6 days ?Little man is still regularly attending the bump, bubs group on Fridays, is now 8 months old ?